"First of all, you do not need the law, or a priest, or your mother to make your wedding real. And, and the church, the church can be anywhere you want it to be: in a field, on a mountain, right here, in this room. Anywhere. Because where do you think God is? Cmon, He’s in you, He’s in me. He’s right here, in the middle of us. Now your church just hasn’t caught up to God yet, your mother, she hasn’t caught up to God yet and by the way, she may not ever catch up, but it’s okay. It’s okay, if you are willing to stand up in front of your friends and family and God and commit yourself to another human being, to give of yourself in that kind of partnership for better or worse, in sickness and health. Honey, that is a marriage. That is real and that’s all that matters."